Three Amazing Books for BDSM Beginners & the Curious Ones - The Lust Lab

The Lust Library: BDSM For Beginners

Three Amazing Books For BDSM Beginners & The Curious Ones

BDSM: bondage, discipline, dominance, submission, sadism and masochism. In the last 30 years its popularity has massively increased, making it one of the most popular kinks at the moment. To many, whose knowledge about the practice is limited, BDSM may sound intimidating. When diving into a new field, it is important to do your research and familiarise yourself with the subject. Negotiation, communication and consent are fundamental in the BDSM play and understanding them is essential before getting involved. For those who are curious or interested in learning more about BDSM, these books are a good start to ease your way into the practice and its community.
Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink and Relationships baby Stella Harris

Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink and Relationships

“My favorite thing when I'm working with clients is when their eyes go wide with the ‘ah-ha' moment that they really can have the sex life of their dreams. It's my hope that with this book, you can as well.”—Stella HarrisSex is still a touchy subject despite recent sex-positive advances. We live in a culture that vilifies people who are sexually adventurous and frames our kinks as shame-inducing perversions. Many people have never been able to talk openly about sex with their partner(s). But, you can get what you want out of the bedroom—if you ask for it. Why should anyone settle for mediocre sex?!Whether addressing sexual frustration with your partner, trying out new fantasies, or negotiating the terms of a BDSM scene, Stella Harris believes that communication skills are vital to sexual fulfillment. Tongue Tied gives readers straightforward advice on how to conquer their fears, identify their needs, and feel positively empowered. Harris charmingly takes readers through all aspects of communication, from basic interpersonal skills to negotiation advice for expert-level kink play. Learn how to have fun, embrace silly moments, support your loved ones, and take personal responsibility for your desires.An incredible guide full of exercises, tools, and personal examples, Tongue Tied is a must-read for people of every experience level and relationship status.

 

The Ultimate Guide to Kink by Tristan Taormino

The Ultimate Guide to Kink 

The Ultimate Guide to Kink is the definitive guide A-Z of BDSM. This long-awaited kink bible includes tips and tricks for novices and experienced players alike. Featuring how-to tutorials, sprinkled with lots of creative ideas and examples this is a unique guide to sexual experimentation and exploration of fantasy. Includes thoughtful essays that probe the psychology and politics of submission, dominance, masochism and sadism. The Ultimate Guide to Kink is hotly-tipped to define the category for the next decade.


Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism by Philip Miller and Molly Devon

Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism 

Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns will tell you all about sadomasochism. We made it light-hearted and fun to read because SM is fun to do. That's why we do it. But fun is only SM's overture; for those who grasp its message, SM is sexual magic. The right blend of trust, fantasy, and sensuality creates an intensely erotic and deeply intimate stew. We take away our lovers' freedom and lead them to profound liberty. We peer into the dark together, transforming it to light. In these pages you will find clear explanations for the curious, and solid advice, safety measures and steamy suggestions for the adventurous. Allow us to guide you through the captivating realms of sensuality, dreamed of by millions, realised by few, and understood by fewer still.

A Complete, Wickedly Funny Guide to S/M; Light-hearted and fun to read, Screw the Roses, Send in the Thorns tells readers everything they need (and want!) to know about sadomasochism. Deeply committed to the blend of trust, fantasy and sensuality that makes S/M an intensely erotic and deeply intimate experience, Miller and Devon here offer everyone - from the complete novice to the well-practised sub or dom - clear explanations, solid advice, safety measures and steamy suggestions. This Erotic and Amusing Guide Includes: Bondage, flogging and bullwhip tutorials as well as S/M for the mind. How to make your own S/M equipment and furnish your own dungeon. A 15-page glossary plus over 30 pages of additional resources.

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